Individuation requires us to find our identity within ourselves, not trying to take it from something else

Individuation - avoiding the generic

Nasu deshaim kal vachomer l'aztmam - the point in our biological history when our genetics ceased to be open source

Arayot - trying to take our identity from others and acting genrically

Chesed - the dangers of violating someone's boundaries and trying to take away their identiy

We cannot take anything from this wold or from someone else; all we can do is share and be in relationship with